Biggest lesson I have been told is to treat them firmly from the very outset. Do not be too "nice". That does not mean treat them harshly, but just be very clear, very fair, but also very strict in terms of expectations.
Biggest lesson I have been told is to treat them firmly from the very outset. Do not be too "nice". That does not mean treat them harshly, but just be very clear, very fair, but also very strict in terms of expectations.
Cameras are fine to use, and indeed should be used especially if you have young children. If I was a helper they would give me comfort, as any suspicion of theft could be proven by viewing the cameras. They key is to explain to the helper that the are not to "spy" on her but used for security reasons.
Doesn't matter what nationality your helper will be, treat them humanely and plant a trust and respect with your working relationship and as a person. And everyone has their own story bad or good, do whatever you think is best for everyone, you get the good advice that you thought is good from everyone around here and think about it. Whatever you say in this forum, are all just from your side and nobody knows what's with the helper's side. And only the two of you stays in the same house, eat at the same table, seeing each other and talking face to face. Be open to each other, if you can treat her like an employee and at the same time as a friend that would be good. Put yourself in each other's shoes. It's your house it's your rule but it's a matter of how are you going to make your house organised and the people living in it in harmony, with love, respect and honesty? At the end of the day, you'll know what will make her love your family and you'll love her too.
I think you should quit your job and take care of your house together with your children that the best thing u can do. You just told that your mom and your friend hired a helper already, so u should already know the rules, I hope you had read the contract before you signed them...
Another thing you can do, call the immigration and knows all the rules and policies....
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